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Keeping Your Momentum

Saturday, April 11th, 2009

I always believed that life is a fast paced race way. Those that stop get left behind and those that continue despite breakdowns, pauses or interferences will ultimately in the end, win the race. As this relates to car racing, so this applies to your life. Youre in the beginning of the race of your life and you have set out to accomplish whatever you set your heart to: you must keep moving, and you cannot stop.

When I was eleven, I was so fascinated with computers; building them, setting them up and troubleshooting them: you would have probably called me an obsessive nerd who woke up working on computers and sleeping with them. Everyday, I would read up on the latest new hardware, or the latest software so I knew exactly how they worked and exactly how to put it together. I felt that I was fairly competent to fix anything that was wrong with a computer.

Two years later, I decided that my life wasnt all about computers and I shifted my focus to business; I stopped reading and updating myself on the latest coolest things and I stopped building and repairing computers. When people would call me up to repair their computers, I politely mentioned that I was no longer in the business and that my interest was else well. A year went by and my dad needed a new computer; and because he wanted it custom built, he asked me to build one for him, I agreed.

I ordered all the parts, and I began to put it together: I was in the shock of my life, I havent seen these new parts and I did not know how to put together the latest and greatest things. Instead of taking a few hours, it took a couple of days, I was disappointed about myself but I learned a great lesson.

You cannot expect to get back on the race track and immediately be number one when you have taken a pause or stopped. Your momentum is lost, your strength is gone and most importantly your drive and energy have weakened.

Right now, it is summer time and for most teens, theyre out playing and generally having a good time and not worrying about school. If you expect that you can walk in onto your school campus on the first day be it high school or college and immediately get back into the rhythm of studying, working and keeping pace with the grueling work load, youre wrong. You must work it back, you must set a predetermined about of time during the summer to get your rhythm back, refocus and build back the determination you had prior to summer.

Smart teenagers that succeed constantly plan ahead; failure to prepare is preparing for failure. Life is built on momentum and smooth transitions; if you stop, your momentum is gone but you can always rebuild that rhythm back. Its not easy, youll have to work, work and work at it. Today, I could probably fix any computer without too many problems, but no where like I was when I was really into it. But thats okay, Im focusing on other things. Do everything you can to avoid bumps or pauses or stops in your life, because those are costly. Keep the courage, keep the faith and most importantly keep your momentum.

Known as The Miao, Lin Miao Executive Director of LinCity.com – http://www.lincity.com – The Ultimate Online Teen City, is labeled as one of the most powerful and inspirational speaker in the subject of Teen Leadership. He is also the Chief Information Officer for United Planet.

Good Friends, Great Life!

Monday, April 6th, 2009

While I was in high school, I developed this habit of always watching people and how they responded to things. When Im walking, when Im talking, and when Im eating, I love to watch people. I dont know why I do it, but I think its just my curiosity of wanting to understand all of the various human characteristics.

About two years ago, in one of my high school math classes, I met this unbelievably down to earth girl (lets call her Sarah), but she always seemed to be sad. Everyday when I had class with her, I would try to take a look at her when I can to observe and perhaps better understand why she seemed so sad. Later as I began to talk to her I soon found out why and I was shocked: she always gone out with the wrong guys and some of them raped her.

I was in disbelief. I have so much respect for girls and when I find out that other guys mistreat girls I often get quite angry about it. However, in this case as I kept on talking with her, I couldnt believe why she let things like this happen. She seemed so strong, so focused, so appreciative of life, but she let herself hang out with the wrong people.

Life is a series of light and darkness. We all want to be in the sunshine, feeling the warmth, that great feeling when youre out in the sunshine. At times cloudy storms tend to disrupt that light, making us feel uncomfortable and uneasy. However, we can always get back in the light; we can always push the darkness away: light and darkness cannot be in the same room.

I have this quote hanging up in my room and I live it everyday: you are who your friends are. In my life I try to be around positive and successful people because that is who I am. I know that may sound selfish and egotistical, but you must set high standards for yourself. If you want to lead and achieve, you must receive the friends who fit your standards. Your standards are there to protect you and to guide you to success, dont lower it for anyone or anything or youll regret it for the rest of your life.

As for Sarah, I am truly sorry for her and the things that the guys have done to her, but she shouldnt have been there in the first place. She shouldnt continually be around the same negative people who may do those kind of things. She needs to understand the power of saying no. Its not rude in life to sometime say no to the wrong people, its not rude at all. If you were driving down the highway and you noticed a road block, you wouldnt try to run into it. You would go around it or move it aside. Thats the way you must be with your friends: life is short, you dont have time for people that will bring you down or hinder your success.

As Eminem said in his rap song lose yourself, you have one chance, one opportunity dont blow it!

Known as The Miao, Lin Miao Executive Director of LinCity.com – http://www.lincity.com – The Ultimate Online Teen City, is labeled as one of the most powerful and inspirational speaker in the subject of Teen Leadership. He is also the Chief Information Officer for United Planet.

ABC’s of Becoming An Effective Teenager

Monday, April 6th, 2009

ABC’s of Becoming an Effective Teen By: Lin Miao

A: Acquire a Strong and Positive Attitude

B: Break Out of Your Shell

C: Characterize Your Hero

D: Demand Respect For Your Standards, Yourself and Your Beliefs

E: Energize Yourself Everyday With a Goal of Making a Difference

F: Failure to Plan, is Planning for Failure

G: Go Big or Go Home

H: Humility is Power

I: Itemize Your Qualities and Seek your Strengths Not Your Weaknesses

J: Jealousy Will Always End in Negative Not Positive

K: Keep your Momentum, Never Stop, Keep Moving!

L: Live Your Life

M: Magnify Your Opportunities

N: Nothing is Better Than the Truth

O: Okay, Youve Failed, Now Get Back Up!

P: Position Yourself in Positive Environments

Q: Quality Over Quantity

R: Realize Problems and Quickly Fix Them

S: Stick to the Purpose

T: Treasure All Your Friends, For Theyre Your Most Prized Treasures

U: Understand That All Things Have a Purpose

V: Visualize Success and Dont Be Afraid to Fail. You Miss 100% of The Shots You Dont Take.

W: Work Hard If You Expect Success

X: X It Out! Youre Better Than That

Y: Yes, is Not Always the Answer. Learn to Say No!

Z: Zoom into Reality, and Zip the Fluff

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Known as The Miao, Lin Miao Executive Director of LinCity.com – http://www.lincity.com – The Ultimate Online Teen City, is labeled as a powerful and inspirational speaker in the subject of Teen Leadership. He is also the Chief Information Officer for United Planet.